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I asked Bonnie Tyler for an autograph at 15 - then spent Christmas with her for 30 years
Image source, Rob Marshall Image caption, Rob Marshall met the Total Eclipse of the Heart singer when he was a teenage fan By Catriona Aitken BBC Wales Published 10 July 2026 A close friend of Bonnie Tyler has spoken about how he knocked on her door to ask for an autograph when he was 15 years old, and ended up spending Christmas Day with her for nearly 30 years. Rob Marshall, from Mumbles, Swansea, recalled how he saw Tyler perform on children's TV series Swap Shop when he was a teenager, bought her album on cassette and took it round to her house to ask her to sign it. The pair kept in contact and a few years later she invited him to her annual festive soirée at her home - which he went on to attend for 29 years. "It was magical," Marshall recalled. "It was an open house... by the end, there were probably 250 people there. It really felt special." Image source, Rob Marshall Image caption, Marshall, a concert pianist, would play music with Tyler during her festive parties In a statement on Bonnie Tyler's website on Thursday morning, her family confirmed she had died on Wednesday in Portugal following ongoing illness. The Skewen-born star who lived in Mumbles is survived by her husband of more than 50 years, Robert Sullivan. The Total Eclipse of the Heart singer was born Gaynor Hopkins and, though Bonnie Tyler was her stage name, she remained Gaynor to close friends and family. Reminiscing about their first meeting, Marshall told BBC Radio Wales Breakfast : "I just knocked on the door. Got the wrong house, first of all, and just went to a modest, three-bedroom detached house which was hers at the time. "We started talking... I'm a classical musician so we were talking about that. She just had so much time for people, in general." The 55-year-old continued: "I think the second time I went round, for an autograph for a single or something, it was all 'come in, stick the kettle on and we'll have a cup of tea'. "She used to come and watch me in school concerts and then later professional concerts as well." Image source, Rob Marshall Image caption, Marshall (right) became close friends with Tyler and Sullivan over the years Marshall said that, while he was studying at the Royal Welsh College of Music in Cardiff, Tyler was singing in St David's Hall. "So I rocked up there, it was a St David's Day concert, and a security person said 'yeah, alright, whatever'. So I left a note and popped back later and he said 'they're in International Hotel and they say come down for tea'. "I took a college friend with me and everyone was gobsmacked [that I] knew Bonnie Tyler. " He said the invite to Christmas occurred when he bumped into her in the pub one Christmas Eve, when he was about 20. He went on to attend her annual Christmas Day get-togethers for the next 29 years, until the last one she held, with husband Robert Sullivan, in 2019. In later years, after Marshall's mum died, his dad would also go along with him. He described "champagne flowing all day" and ple